When was the last time you cried?	Last wknds
Have you ever faked sick?	Yes!
What was the last lie you said?	Hmm, yexterday to someone jijiks
Have you ever cried during a movie?	Yes. How schweeet
Have you ever danced in the rain?	Not my style
Have you ever been drunk?	No way
Do you smoke?	Nope
What is your full name?	Nadhirah Mahadi
What is your blood-type?	uuuhhhmmmm
Have you ever been in a car accident?	Alhamdulillah, tidak
How old were you when you recieved your first kiss?	Uhukkuhuk
Who was your first kiss?	-
Have you ever had an online relationship?	No wayyy. Am not that cheap
Have you ever been rejected by a crush?	Yeah. Who doesnt?
What is your favourite sport to play?	?????
Have you ever made a prank phone call?	Yes. Funneh
Have you ever said "I Love you" and not meant it?	Nope.
Is there anything that you have done that you regret?	Yes. Too many *sad face*
What do you want to be when you grow up?	Business woman
What is your political persuassion?	???
Do you believe in g-d?	?
Do you believe in love at first sight?	neh
Do you believe in karma?	ya, sometimes
Who was your first crush?	Cant recall
Who do yo uhave a crush on?	standard 2 i guess
How would you describe yourself?	Happy girl.
What are you afraid of?	God
Are you religious?	hmmm
What does your screen name mean?	a combining of my name and bla bla
What person do you trust the most?	my mothah
Who was your first boyfriend/girlfriend?	Danial R
What is the best compliment you have ever recieved?	Too many. Cehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
What is the meanest thing anyone has said about you?	Hmmmmmm byk jugak hehe
What is the longest crush/relationship you have had?	2 years plus
What is your greatest strength?	My mother
What is your greatest weakness?	hmm
What is your perfect pizza?	plain cheese and banana kaya! Yumeyyyh
What is your first thought when waking up in the morning?	got class ah today?
What is your first thought before you go to bed?	quotes. missing mothah always
What college do you want to go to?	im here in MMU
Do you get along with your family?	YES
Do you play any instruments?	I wish
What kind of music do you like?	r&b jazz slow lovesongs
Would you ever get a tattoo?	i wish i can
How many piercings do you have?	a pair, ears
Who makes you laugh?	my gfs
Who would you want to be tied to for 24hours?	bf :p
Have you ever seen a dead body?	yes ;(
Do you have a celebrity crush?	YES. SY!
What is one thing scientists should invent?	-
Have you ever broken a bone?	nope
What happens after you die?	uh
Do you watch or read the news?	read and watch
What stereotype would you label yourself as being?	neh
Would your friends agree with that stereotypic label?	neh
If yo ucould change your name, what would you change it to?	diera morata
If you could go back in time to one point in your life, where would you go	when i was kid
If you could change anything about yourself, what would you change?	my body figure
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?	haha never
Would you ever lie to someone to make them feel good about themselves?	yes
What do you want your friends to think about you?	ask them
HAve you ever bitten someone?	yes. bliss
Have you ever stolen anything?	haha
Do you make wishes on shooting stars?	nope
If you could go back and change one day, what would it be?	aiyo
Do you remember your dreams?	sometimes
Have you ever been in love?	yes
Are you a morning person or a night person?	night ;p but bothe can be
Do you have any phobias?	yup
Have you ever been to the hospital (other then birth?	yes
How many screen names do you have?	2
Do any medical problems run in your family?	nope thank god
Have anyone ever been disowned from your family?	neh
Have you ever had a nightmare?	YES
Do you say meaner things to your friends or your enemies?	sometimes
Have you ever cheated on your bf/gf?	yaa
Have you ever laughed so hard you peed in your pants?	hahaha tak. this is funneh
Have you ever written a love letter?	yes..
Have you ever attempted suicide?	nope
Do you prefer boxers or briefs?	boxers
Have you ever been in a fistfight?	nah
Do you have any hidden talents?	maybe
What is one thing you want me to know about you?	hmmmmm, my att
Do you usually prefer books or movies?	movies obviously
Who is your favourite person to talk to?	my mother
Would you ever have sex before marriage?	nope!
Who do you talk to most on the phone?	my mom n bf
Do you prefer british or american spelling of words?	british
Have you ever gotten detention?	neh
How do you vent your anger?	neh
Have you ever been on a diet?	dieting
Would you ever date someone younger than you? Older than you?	yes yes
Is your best friend a virgin?	hahahah
Have you ever been diagnosed with a mental illness?	nope
Have you ever cut yourself on purpose?	tak la weyh
Have you ever wanted to murder someone?	tak
Have you ever hated someone?	yes
Do you prefer talking on the phone or online?	otp
Do you consider yourself popular?	wow ;p
Would you ever tell the person you have a crush on that you like them?	yes
Have you ever had a crush on an enemy?	tak
Have you ever had a crush on a best friend?	yes
What is your favourite book?	mary kate and ashley
Do you have a collection of anything?	books
Are you happy with the person you are becoming?	yes
Are you a different person now then you were 5 years ago?	yes
What do you see yourself as being in 5 years from now?	a lovely wife to my hubby, beloved mother to my children and a great daughter to my parents

Who are you texting?
Boyfriend.

Why aren't you in 'love' with your last ex anymore?
He's an ass.

Do you think anyone has feelings for you?
I do, i do think that

How late did you stay up last night and why?
4am. Masak for my boyfriend.

What do you currently hear right now?
Rindu padanya - Camelia

When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?
Just now.

Who was the first person you talked to today?
Mummy

Have you ever ridden a horse?
YES

What are you looking forward to in the next month?
College

Are you wearing jeans right now?
Nope

Have you lost contact with someone you wish you didn't?
Yes ):

What's something you do when you're mad?
Eat sleep and talk to mama

Are you a patient person?
Not so

When was the last time you cried?
Yesterday

Where is your default picture taken?
Messey hartmasa condo

What is your current mood?
OKAY -___-

If you could go back in time and change something, would you?
Yes

What's your favorite smell?
Vanilla.

Ever kissed in the rain?
Nope

What are you thinking about right now?
My boyfriend

What color are your eyes?
Black

Is there someone you just can't imagine your life without?
Yes

Have you ever got a D or F on your report card
D pernah xD

If you married the last person you texted, what would your last name be?
EW

Were you happy when you woke up today?
Yes. Sbb dapat massage. Sedap sangat and release some tense

Do you believe in true love?
Yes

Will your next kiss be a mistake?
Naa

Bored kays

Have you ever made out with someone you weren't dating?
Im not that cheap okays

Is there a difference between the word 'best friend' and 'friend'?
Ofcourse, are you stupid?

Do you miss anyone?
Very much

Can you recall the last time you sincerely liked someone?
Yes. How nice ;)

When is the last time someone of the opposite sex gave you a hug?
Just now. Aw

Who is your celebrity crush?
FIZO OMAR. :))))))

Can you touch your toes?
Yes

Is silence really golden?
Yes

Do you have any interesting tattoos/piercings?
I dont.

Are you afraid to grow up?
Hm. Tak

Who were you with last night?
Boyfriend

What language do you want to learn?
Spanish

Any upcoming vacations?
Yup. Chinaaaaaaaaaaaa, here i come :)

If you had to marry someone on your top, who would it be?
Farhan

Do you care what people think of you?
Not really. Go ahead

Do you like to read?
Sometimes

Plans for tomorrow?
Going to watch stilleto for the second time.

SURVEYY..


1.) What curse word do you use the most?
FUCKER

2.) Do you own an iPod?
Tak. Okay to anyone yang sangat baik hati, belikan Ipod? pleasee xD

3.) Who on your Myspace “Top 8″ do you talk to the most?
Lame

4.) What time is your alarm clock set for?
6 AM. SUBUH.

5.) What color is your room?
Pink

6.) Flip flops or sneakers?
Flip flops

7.) Would you rather take the picture or be in the picture?
Knowing me, be in the picture

8.) What was the last movie you watched?
Hmm

9.) Do any of your friends have children?
Tak

10.) Has anyone ever called you lazy?
YES

11.) Do you ever take medication to help you fall asleep faster?
Naa tak

12.) What CD is currently in your CD player?
Love song

13.) Do you prefer regular or chocolate milk?
Naa

14.) Has anyone told you a secret this week?
Yes

15.) Have you ever given someone a hickey?
Naa

16.) Who was the last person to call you?
Farhan

17.) Do you think people talk about you behind your back?
I dont care

18.) Did you watch cartoons as a child?
Yes

19.) How many siblings do you have?
4 including me

20.) Are you shy around the opposite sex?
Sometimes

21.) What movie do you know every line to?
Naa

22.) Do you own any band t-shirts?
Tak

23.) What is your favorite salad dressing?
NAA

24.) Do you read for fun?
Sometimes

25.) Do you cry alot?
Depends

26.) Have you ever farted in public?
Tak. sorok2 la haha

27.) Do you have a desktop computer or a laptop?
Both

28.) Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoo?
Tak

29.) What is the weather like?
like shit ryddskjwawoewurydvoa

30.) Would you ever date someone covered in tattoos?
Hmm

31.) Is sex before marriage wrong?
YESSSSSSSS

32.) When was the last time you slept on the floor?
tah

33.) How many hours of sleep do you need to function?
8 hrs

34.) Are you in love or lust?
IN LOVE

35.) Are your days full and fast-paced?
naa

36.) Do you pay attention to calories on the back of packages?
Naaa sometimes

37.) How old will you be turning on your next
birthday?
19teen

38.) Are you picky about spelling and grammar?
Not really

39.) Have you ever been to Six Flags?
Naa

40.) Do you get along better with the same or
opposite sex?
Sama je

41.) Do you like Cottage Cheese?
Naa

42.) Do you sleep on your side, tummy, or back?
side

43.) Have you ever bid for something on eBay?
yup

44.) Do you enjoy giving hugs?
Yes

45) What song did you last sing out loud?
KINI

46) What is your favorite TV show?
dyesebel

47) Which celebrity dead or alive would you want to have lunch with?
Keira Knightley and orlando bloom

48) Last time you had butterflies in your stomach?
Naa

49) What one thing do you wish you had?
IPOD

50) Favorite Lyrics?
Naa

Im finishing this survey sentences ..


1 My ex... SUCH AN ASS (!)
2 Maybe I should... HAVE MY 8 HRS SLEEP NOW.
3 I love... MY MUMMY AND SISTER
4 People would say that i'm... A LUCKY DAUGHTER
5 I don't understand... WHY DO PEOPLE TELLING LIES?
6 When i wake up in the morning... I ALWAYS CHECK MY CELLPHONE
7 I never... LOST MY VIRGINITY. SWEAR :)
8 Life is full of... DRAMAS
9 My past is... NOT AS BAD AS YOURS
10 I get annoyed when... PEOPLE ALWAYS STAB BEHIND MY BACK
11 Parties are... FOR LOSERS OKAY
12 I wish... I HAD A GOOD DAY TMRW
13 Dogs... ARE UGLY
14 Cats... IS WORSE THAN DOG
15 Tomorrow... IM GOING TO ..
16 If I had a million dollars... I'LL SHOP TILL DROP ;P

SURVEY (!)

1. whos your boyfriend.
For me to know.

2. who do you wanna have sex with.
Future Husband, like seriously

3. whos your future husband.
God knows

4. whos your future baby daddy.
Naaa

5. who knows you best.
Mummy ofcourse

6. who do you love.
Mom and sistah

7. who do you trust.
Family

8. where would you go rite now.
Hmm

9. who would you be with and what would you do with them.
Naa

10. does your boyfriend call you alot.
He's at my house now

11. who makes you smile.
Family boyfriend and friends

12. do you like where your at.
Yup

13. if you had special power what would they be.
Read peoples mind

14. who are you in love with.
Farhan

15. do you think you would break up with the person your with.
I have no idea

16. if you caught your boyfriend having sex with another girl what would
you do.
"Apa2 je la aslkan kau bahagia"

17. who makes you feel comfortable.
Mummy

18. who makes you feel uncomfortable.
Naa

19. have you ever smoked weed or done any drug.
Never

20. would the person you trust let you smoke weed.
THEY WONT

21. are you straight/bi/gay.
straight

22. what would you do if you where in room with your boyfriend.
Im a good girl. Hehehe

23. why do people like you.
Suka i ke? LOL

24. who is the person you would call if you were scared.
Farhan

25. did your mom or dad pass away
Alhamdulillah. Tak.

26. if so why.
-

27. what person hardly talks to you.
Naa

28. would you smoke cigars
I never tried

29. what are you looking forward to.
This saturday night. Will look fabulous on Kak nana's wedding Yayy :0

30. whats your mood.
OKAY -___-

31. why are you in that mood ritee noww.
-___-

32. who are the people that you would beat someone up for.
Naa

33. why did you last fight. .
Nah

34. whos your worst nightmare.
YOUU

35. who do you really really miss rite now.
My long lost friends. I miss youuuuu. You know who you are babe ;)

Some of the quotes i love .

Sarcastic Quotes

• You are not as bad as people say, you are much, much worse.
• Do you want me to accept you as you are, or do you want me to lie to myself and try to like you?
• Don't thank me for insulting you, it was a pleasure.
• I don't know what makes you so dumb but it really works.
• I like you. People say I've got no taste, but I like you.
• Pardon me, but you're obviously mistaking me for someone who gives a damn.
• Don't be humble, you are not that great.
• He is YOUR god, they are YOUR rules, YOU burn in hell.

and now.. i just knew that Twitter is love

watafak la you.

Im Finishing the survey sentence ..


1. The last person I kissed is: very cute
2. I have no respect for: people who hates my family
3. One of my friends just: lied to my parents
4. I feel bad for: you
5. I would never: love you anymoree
6. I hate spending money on: topups
7. The most ridiculous thing I ever bought was: roda impian game. babiii so mahal and now biar je like that
8. My mom: is very cuteee
9. I didn't know that: im going to urgh soon
10. In the morning, I usually: check my phone
11. My last ex: was an ass hahahahahahaa
12. I like to drive: alone
13. I last worked at: none
14. I wish I had: a baby now
15. One sucky thing that happened today was: my car had been scratch
16. One time I: decided to come back to you
17. My sibling usually: loves being joker
18. My future career will probably be: a lawyer or a business woman
19. My life after high school : is bored like shit
20. One school subject I hate/hated: science, for real
21. I love when: farhan kissed my forehead
22. Snow makes me: ahh ahhh
23. My favorite color for a car is: white
24. The last song I heard on the radio was: you make me feel brand new
25. I usually never: answer stupid question
26. The worst type of weather is: like this ..
27. I wish I never lost touch with: that 'someone'
28. My last ex: WAS AN ASS. SHOULD I REPEAT?
29. When I walk in heels, I: rasa nak jatuh sikit
30. I wouldn't be caught dead in: wtves
31. When I get married, I plan to: have a luxury house
32. The number of kids I want to have is: 5
33. My favorite television channel is: 104 hahaha
34. One thing I have a strong opinion about is: im a girl
35. The worst color combination is: green n red
36. The last person I texted: very cute
37. Last night, I: had a good dream
38. I hate waking up: in the afternoon
39. My best friend usually: call me D
40. One time I almost died when: i was in cheer
41. The scariest thing that ever happened to me was: jatuh jetski
42. When I go to the beach, I: always wear shorts
43. One time I broke: your heart, now your broke mine hahahaha
44. When I was little, I used to: to love lollipop
45. One time I dyed my hair: brown in color
46. The worst outfit I ever wore was: when my 12th birthday party
47. Right now, I'm wearing: kaften
48. I've never had: an ipod. so i want nowwwwwwwwwwwww
49. When I turn 40, I hope : i'll always look pretty to my husband
50. If my best friend was pregnant/got someone pregnant, I'd: want to have their baby

Cause im bored like shit

Have you ever made out in a bathroom?
Ew

Do you think the last person you kissed is nice?
I think so hihihihi

Crushing on anyone new?
Naa

Last person you danced with?
Can't recall

Would you take any of your exes back?
Jodoh ditgn tuhan kan. Kalau boleh tak nak la

When is the last time you cried and why?
Last 3 days. Ada la.

Last text from?
Farhan

When was the last time you were so drunk you threw up?
Never. Imma good girl xD

Would you go back in time if you were given the chance?
I think no

What are your plans for this weekend?
Hang around

Kissed someone in a vehicle?
Funny question

Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you baby?
Very very

Last guy/girl who tried to hit on you?
Naa

What's irritating you right now?
Nothing

Is cheating ever okay?
Depends on what la. Tipu sunat okay what hahahaha

Is there anyone you wish was still in your life?
Yes.

What is the last thing you did before you went to bed last night?
Kiss mama

Is this year the best year of your life?
No idea

Do you have any strange phobias?
Nope

Do you give out second chances too easily?
Like that laa..

Are you jealous of someone?
Totally no

Do you have a best friend?
Yeap

Who was the last person you cried in front of?
Mama

Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Im not perfect but part of me are awesome

Is heartbreak really as bad as it sounds?
Very

Have you dated people who weren't good to you?
Yes. Middle finger to you for free!

Would you share a drink with a stranger?
NOOOOO WAY!

Do you think its right for straight guys to get their tongue pierced?
I hate it

Have you ever been caught doing something you weren't supposed to?
Nope

If we were to look in your phone inbox, what would we find?
Messages

Anyone upset you lately?
Not anymore

Do you love someone at the moment?
Yes I do

Say you were given a drug test right now, would you pass?
Ofcourse with BIG SMILE ON MY FACE.

When did you last receive flowers?
Bulan 12 kot, merajuk dgn b ;p

Can you make yourself cry?
Yes

Are you easily confused?
Sometimes

When is the next time you will kiss someone?
Tonight

Last thing you drank?
Ice water

In YOUR wedding, who will be the best man and the maid of honor?
Naa

Have you ever passed out on the bathroom floor?
Nope

Have you ever thought about getting your nose pierced?
Noway.

What was the last reason you went to the Doctor for?
Cant recall

What can you not wait for?
Spm result, ya right

Again, cause im so bored . So enjoy all this surveys.


What are the color of your eyes?
Black

Who was the last person to be in your bedroom?
Cikda

Are you in a relationship at this point and time?
Yea la

Have you ever eaten an uncooked cookie?
YES! HAHA SO NICE YOU KNOWWW

Have you ever eaten soap?
Im not stupid

Is there a place that you wish you could visit?
Yes

Do you believe that this weekend will be a good one for you?
InsyaALLAH

Does anyone disgust you?
Yes

Have you argued with anyone today?
Nope, thank God

Do you honestly believe that good things come for those who wait?
Maybe

Are you ready for kids?
YES :P

What if you had a baby with the last person that you texted?
Wow, she's a girl mannnnnn ;D

Do you have nice eyes?
Ofcourse, tu la farhan jatuh hati ha ha ha ha

Did you go to sleep smiling last night?
Yes

Let's say you walk past your ex on the street. What do you say?
I say nothing

Why did you even love the last person that you kissed?
Because i love .. naaa

What is one thing that you didn't like about your day today?
So panas

What do you tend to drink a lot of?
mineral water

Is there anyone that is jealous of you or anything that you have?
Yes :D

Is there someone that you used to talk to every single day but you don't now?
Nope

Have you told anyone that you missed them lately?
Yes

This time last year, can you remember who you had feelings for?
*COUGH* YES

Is anything bothering you right now?
Nope

Do you know how it feels to be cheated on?
Yes. Fuck you

Do you think that your last ex will eventually want to be with you again?
EW, never cross my mind

Have you ever kissed anyone driving?
yes

Think of the last person you kissed. Have you ever kissed them on a bed or a couch?
haha yes mom!

Is there someone you can spend every minute with and be happy?
yes

Have you ever liked someone that you didn't expect to?
yes

When was the last time you changed clothes in front of someone?
tadi

What does your last text message say?
ok from alliya

What was for dinner last night?
mushroom soup with bread

Is your best friend single?
yes

Who was the last person that you cried in front of?
mommy

Next thanggggg ;)

1. When was the last time you used a fax machine?
Can't recall

2. What was the last lie you told your parents?
Huh

3. Do you play more online games or video games?
Online games hihihi

4. What's something you really need to do right now?
Nothing than this

5. When did you last watch a tv show/movie marathon on tv?
Can't recall

6. Have you ever made your own clothes?
I so wish

7. What was the last theme party you went to? What was the theme?
Naa

8. Do you ever have days that you just spend the whole day hanging out with your best friend?
Yeap

9. What summer movies are you looking forward to?
Donno

10. Is there a person you can't get rid of in your life?
Yea for real

11. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
Because.. mama, i love you ;)

12. Who have you talked to on the phone the longest this week?
Boyfriend.

13. Would rather go out or stay in on weekends?
Go out.

14. What was the last surprising news you heard?
Can't recall

15. Are you waiting for anything to come in the mail?
Yes yes, so much

16. What was the longest vacation you ever took?
Naa

17. Where did you go?
Naa

18. Who did you go with?
who what?

19. Do you use more plastic utensils or metal ones?
metal

20. When was the last time you went tanning?
never

What does the 15th message in your inbox say?

Okay. Update me always

Can you see a cat from where you're sitting?

Nooo!

Don't you hate it when a piece of hair goes down your shirt, and when you go and fetch it out, it looks like you're touching yourself?

Not really

When was the last time you kissed someone?

Yesterday

Does that person still give you butterflies?

lol mommy!

Which is worse: girls that are boy-crazy or guys that are constantly thinking about sex and talking about it?

guys that are constantly bla bla

Do you hate the silence?

just normal

Have you ever just wanted to grab someone's face and tell them you love them?

yes, for real

What are you waiting for?

spm result? &^%^$@*&%!

Who irritates you to no end, but you love anyway?

brother, both of them!

What color is your bra?

now? orange

Do you have red hair?

never, i don't like

What's the closest red item near to you?

bottle

So how many surveys have you done today, in total, anyway?

just one. i miss doing surveyss!

Do you hate it when people borrow your stuff and never return it?

very

What time will you go to bed tonight?

no idea

Is it cute when a boy is immature?

hell no

What are you doing tomorrow?

keluar with mommy

What were you doing last night?

im watching drama with mama & farhan

Who was the last person that told you that you make them happy?

farhan

Are you in love with anyone?

haha panasssssssss! yea

How much money do you have on you now?

150 bucks ):

Do you think baby pictures of yourself are cute?

very ;P

What's on your calendar this month?

period is on bla bla
result day
hajar's birthday

Hello all. Sorry havent write for sooo long. Busy with everything and sangat malas. Anyways, really really missed blogspot.
I think its not too late for me saying this
'HELLO 2010!'



Loves,
Baby D

Baby, i love you ):


I come here today, in this way, because I need to apologize to you. I failed you. Although I did not lie to you in words, I lied to you with faces that did not belong to me. I never meant to ruin the friendship that meant the world to me. You mean the world to me and now I come to you asking for forgiveness. If in your heart you find you can't, then I will understand and learn from this experience. You have come into my life at a time when I needed you the most. We talked about so many things that I started to realize my heart and my soul could actually feel something other than hurt. You placed comfort where there was fear, confidence where there was doubt, a shoulder where tears could fall and completeness where there was emptiness. I wanted to hold onto to this so badly that I did whatever it took for you to notice. What I didn't realize was that I could lose my entire being, all of who I was and all that I had placed in you. I wanted to be the one who would be there when you needed to talk. I wanted to be the comfort for your soul when the world was too much to handle. I wanted to be strong for you when everything else seemed impossible. I wanted to love you in only the way you deserved to be loved, never realizing that I was destroying myself and you. Somehow I needed you to be a part of my life.

All the things that I told you about how I felt and how you make me feel were true. Nothing else mattered to me except hearing the laughter in your voice when you were happy. You made my days easy to get through and my nights at peace, looking forward to another day, even though distance separates us just being was enough. I'm sorry for hurting you and if I had to do all over again I would have been 100% with you.

I just want to thank you and thank whoever sent you for me to put my faith in you. This letter is just a patch on what I feel for you; the rest is a private conversation between our hearts.

And again, I got flowers. Yihaaaaaaaaaa!
25th1208' - Im taken.
I never thought i could say this, but i love you Farhann .

Thanks Sayang.

THANKS.

Hehe. I got this flowers from this one special boy in my heart, Farhan :)

LOveloveove, diera.

Four simple steps to create a successful relationship despite your differences:

1. Talk frequently and honestly to each other about your frustrations, about intimacy, about anger, about disappointment, about your appreciation of each other, about the meaning of life about everything.

2. Strive to work together to solve anything that comes up. Learn to be a team, a partnership. Don't get stuck on who's right or wrong. Instead, focus on what will solve the problem.

3. Keep your connection going through communication, affection, understanding, and mutual concern for one another.

4. Have a sense of humor, give the benefit of the doubt, lighten up and don't forget to give them a compliment *should always do. Try not to react so dramatically, and let small things roll off your back.

When you follow these four steps, your differences won't separate you -- they'll excite you.

Four simple steps to create a successful relationship despite your differences:

1. Talk frequently and honestly to each other about your frustrations, about intimacy, about anger, about disappointment, about your appreciation of each other, about the meaning of life, about everything.

2. Strive to work together to solve anything that comes up. Learn to be a team, a partnership. Don't get stuck on who's right or wrong. Instead, focus on what will solve the problem.

3. Keep your connection going through communication, affection, understanding, and mutual concern for one another.

4. Have a sense of humor, give the benefit of the doubt, and lighten up. Try not to react so dramatically, and let small things roll off your back.

When you follow these four steps, your differences won't separate you -- they'll excite you.